節哀 (zit3 oi1) — to restrain one's grief (used in offering condolences to bereaved) in Cantonese
zit˗₃節oiˉ¹哀简 节哀
Mandarin Pinyin: jie2 ai1
Meaning of 節哀
nounto restrain one's grief (used in offering condolences to bereaved)
nounMourning; to overcome one's sorrows