同檯食飯,各自修行 (tung4 toi4 sik6 faan6, gok3 zi6 sau1 hang6) — to appear to be together, but it is actually each to their own in reality [written and colloquial] in Cantonese
tungˎ₄同toiˎ₄檯sikˍ₆食faan6,飯,gok˗₃各ziˍ₆自sauˉ¹修hangˍ₆行简 同台食饭,各自修行
Mandarin Pinyin: tong2 tai2 shi2 fan4, ge4zi4 xiu1xing2
Meaning of 同檯食飯,各自修行
nounto appear to be together, but it is actually each to their own in reality [written and colloquial]
idiomEat together at the same table, but cultivate oneself separately; live together but have different beliefs or paths.