求之不得 (kau4 zi1 bat1 dak1) — just what one wished for; to wish for sth. however fail to receive it in the end in Cantonese
kauˎ₄求ziˉ¹之batˉ¹不dakˉ¹得Mandarin Pinyin: qiu2 zhi1 bu4 de2
Meaning of 求之不得
nounjust what one wished for; to wish for sth. however fail to receive it in the end